Is love compromising?

try as i might, all i want to do is to wave the white flag.

it took me five years to realize that i can't change a man.

now i'm stuck in a place where i can't move on, unless i choose to give up or just suck it up.

if love is about compromise, then mine is not love.

Comments

Mz said…
gosh, kai.. r u okay?
i think love is compromising, but it isn't sacrificing. the word "sacrifice" itself is already negative. i think it's time to reassess ur relationship, harsh as it may sound, it's necessary for ur happiness and wellbeing. we, ur frenz will all be supportive of ur decision, no matter wat it is. think logically, is it all really worth it?

god bless..
3:43 PM, April 18, 2006
Jenn said…
I wouldn't be the best person to give you advise on this. But if this is the person you cannot envision your future without, stick with it. If you think despite all he's done, there is a chance for a future still, it means you won't give up and you'll suck it up, no matter how hard it seems. Is it as hard as it seems? If you don't think you can ever get used to it, then let's move on.

You can't change the whole man, but have you managed to change some of him?
11:48 PM, April 21, 2006
Mz said…
i'd add "think logically", wat min says is true, wat's 5 yrs compared to a lifetime? i'm not a person who likes taking chances like this, make a decision, stick to it, n don't regret.

we all DO deserve the BEST! love
1:26 PM, April 24, 2006
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